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I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
When a girl complains about a guy who stops returning her calls, my first instinct is to tell her "You think that's bad?
I was rejected more times in the last month than you've been rejected in your entire life.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
If you get dumped by a guy you like, remember that although this is probably due in part to men playing below their league, it is also the product of you being ambitious in your relationships: you are trying to get the best guy you can, and therefore you are dating guys that might dump you. If you were constantly settling for guys of a low caliber, then of course you would have more success, but you wouldn't be content.
While it is certainly worthwhile to consider whether or not your standards are realistic, you should also acknowledge how lazy or apathetic you would be to settle for someone below your potential.
A man gains nothing from staying on his side of the street when a beautiful woman passes on the other; a woman gains nothing from perpetuating a relationship in which she constantly .You are the only one responsible for your dating success. And like in all other aspects of life, you can increase that success by taking risks, enduring rejections, picking yourself back up and trying again. A woman has to have the courage to let the man walk away, while a man has to have the balls to approach in the first place.While men have to become confident enough to approach without knowing how a woman will respond, women have to become confident enough to let a man act according to his true feelings for her, without knowing whether he will stay with her or leave.